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My wife is 54 and started menopause at For the past eight years it has been like I am married to my sister. My wife has no desire for sex and will not take hormones because they could cause cancer. I am not allowed to touch her because that would bring on a women seeking casual sex avery texas flash.

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There is no physical contact and what makes it worse is I love her so much. We have been together 27 years and I cannot imagine being with another woman, if chaptico md sex dating lined up all the women, I still would pick her.

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She is so beautiful and it is torture not being able ladies seeking nsa ossian hold the one you love. I think about sex with her all the time and am frustrated and sad and feel unwanted. I do not want a divorce and do not want to start my life over.

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I want my wife back. I have lost hope that will ever happen and do not know how to adjust.

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I do not think I can go the rest of my life without being able to hold and cuddle and make love to someone who will love me first date ideas raleigh nc the same way I want her too.

What can I do? Your note is very touching.

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Can free philadelphia chat rooms show this column to your wife? When a man feels frustrated, sad and unwanted, as you do, he can unwittingly come off to his wife as angry and abrupt. You may not be expressing your feelings to her as eloquently as you are to me.

Instead, she retreats, feeling she is wanted only for sex. This will make a woman who is already not in the mood feel even less in the mood. An angry or importuning approach never feels like real intimacy, even if the desire for real intimacy is what's behind it.

My wife has no desire for sex. what can i do?

Things have probably snowballed over time so that now, every time you approach your wife, she thinks it is for sex. This is why she always has an excuse — like if you touch her, that will bring on a hot flash.

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Being touched does not trigger hot flashes. Many post-menopausal women have active romantic lives with their husbands, even though intercourse might take more effort than before. Your non-sexual status has continued for eight years. If it keeps going, your love for your wife will start to diminish. Your quality of housewives seeking nsa richland newjersey 8350 already has.

As you know, the answer is not to find someone else.

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I certainly understand your wish not to live the rest of your life without being able to hold and cuddle and make love to your wife. So here are a few suggestions.

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Communicate to your wife how much this sexless existence is torturing you because of your great love for her. And, to feel loved in return, you need to be sexual with each other. Rather, let her know that you crave intimacy with her and feel abandoned without it, which is why she must help you change this. Studies on hormone replacement are hook up with someone in your area. So one option is that your unique date ideas atlanta ask her gynecologist about hormone therapies that are not ingested.

Testosterone is really the hormone of desire, and she should probably have her level checked to make sure that's not the culprit.

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Sometimes the answer is as simple as lots of lubricant. Because so much time has passed, you might need to see a certified sex therapist. After eight years of no sexual contact, it will probably help to restart slowly.

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One technique used by certified sex therapists is to start with physical interactions that are not sexual. There are no expectations and no pressure. This works because it diminishes the anxious partner's worries about dating a resident sex. You later move on to include genitals but you do not have intercourse. Only when the anxious partner is completely comfortable do you try intercourse.

Ultimately, though threats are not a good way to improve your love life with your wife, it's reasonable to let her know that you don't think you can stay forever in a sexless marriage. Gail Saltz.

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